What do you do if you have family conflict? It seems that nowadays most of us run into these questions a lot. There is a good of number of families that are dysfunctional and their children and wife suffer from the result of it. A bad family will ruin everything for a child. If you even look at history you will see that there are a great of number of people and even celebrities to mention have come from really bad families.
Some people manage to rise above their problems and other has not. It’s not easy trying to move out of your home and trying to support yourself. It’s one of the most difficult things you have to do in life. Yet, there is at least half of the population that is experiencing family problems. Why is this so when the family is the most loving thing for us? Strangers don’t take care of us and they don’t provide a roof over our head but the people that do help us are also giving us a hard time. It’s a paradox sometimes.
There are people who have so much family problems that they stop doing everything in life and fall apart over their problems. Some people go to the extreme of doing harmful things to themselves. This is not how it should be but it does happen all the time. You probably have seen enough of it.
What kind of problems do people have in the family? Most of the time is the issue of finance. People are stressed over money. They work hard and they don’t have much to flow around. They have to take care of many kids and they are just not happy. They work too much and they don’t have time for themselves.
One of the spouses doesn’t work and then things start to tension up. One of the reasons why family has problems is that it’s the issue of finance. If you ask people they will tell you that it’s over finance. I have seen my uncle’s family fall apart over finance. They can get really bad with money. Yes! Money comes in between all relationships.
One thing that you can do to help out your situation is to find out what the problem is and then work on it. There must be plenty of clues to find out what the problem is. It’s not that hard to figure out. Usually the dad works too hard and he get stressed out if your mom doesn’t work. He is working hard to provide for everyone and this is driving him to the ground. It can get really bad.
I have seen it with one of my rep at work. He was abusive to his wife and children after he got laid off from his job. It’s not that hard to find a job after having so much experience but I guess people really overact. They overact over a little thing. Just calm down and take a deep breath and start solving your problems instead of imposing it on others. You should not make your short term problem into a long term one.
Written by kay_pierre